Teen Counseling Orlando: Navigating Indecision After High School
Teen Counseling Orlando: Navigating Indecision After High School
Written by: Lauran Hahn, LMHC
All your friends know exactly what they want to do after school. Most of them have already been accepted and are aware of what comes next. Everyone seems to have a plan, while you're unsure of which direction to take. You keep going back and forth, wishing for the clarity your friends obviously have. You have some ideas, but nothing feels solid, leading you to doubt yourself.
The decision feels paralyzing, and you realize you're not certain enough to make that kind of commitment, especially since going to college might involve taking out a student loan. You don't want to end up in a career you're not particularly interested in just because you don't want to sit around and do nothing.
If this sounds like you, you're not alone.
And it doesn't mean you're lost. In this text, we'll explore some options so that you can move forward even if you're not 100% sure yet.
Why It's So Hard to Decide (And Why That's Okay)
If you don't know what you want to do after high school, this doesn't mean that you lack ambition or that you're lazy. Deciding what you want to do in life is a big decision. And big decisions can bring a lot of pressure. All those choices can easily make you feel overwhelmed or anxious. Anxiety about making the right decision can make it harder to think clearly and feel excited about the future instead of being paralyzed.
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If you're unsure what comes next, you don't have to figure it all out overnight. There are many paths you can take that still keep you moving forward while giving you time and space to figure out what you actually want. Here are a few options that can help you not to lose momentum without rushing into a decision you're not ready to make:
1. Take a Gap Year
Many young people feel pressured to go straight to college after high school because it is a norm—doesn't everyone do it, after all? No, this doesn't have to be the only option. You're not wasting time by hitting pause. If you're uncertain about what you want to do, a gap year can be a smart way to explore and gain clarity.
You might travel, volunteer, get a job, try a new hobby, or simply take time to make a more informed decision. The goal isn't to avoid your future but to get to know yourself better so you can make future choices with more confidence.
2. Start at a Community College
If the idea of jumping straight into a four-year university feels too intense or too expensive, community college can be a great middle step. You can take general education classes, explore different subjects, and even transfer later if you choose to continue. For instance, even if you don't know your major yet, general ED classes can still count toward a future degree. You're learning, growing, and getting credits while still keeping your options open. Opting for community college gives you structure without pressure and often more flexibility.
3. Try Job Shadowing
If you have ever wondered what it's really like to work as a doctor, nurse, lawyer, or designer, job shadowing can give you a perfect behind-the-scenes perspective. Spend some time following someone in a job you're curious about. Or pick a few professions that you like, and see what feels like a good fit. You might discover a new passion or realize something isn't for you.
4. Talk to a Career Counselor
Whether you're at a high school, community college, or university, career counselors can be a huge help. They can guide you through assessments, explore your strengths and interests, and help you connect the dots between what you enjoy and what careers might fit. Even talking to professors, professionals in the field, or family members with interesting jobs can help you learn more about what's out there.
5. Consider a Summer Job in a Field You're Curious About
Taking an entry-level job isn't just about making money. It can also give you an insight into the real world. If you're curious about working in healthcare, hospitality, education, or another field, try to find a summer job in that space and get hands-on experience.
Consider Teen Counseling
You keep saying to yourself, "Everyone else has it figured out. What's wrong with me?" "If I don't make the right decision, I'll ruin my future." "I'm just lazy." "My parents are expecting me to go to college. I can't let them down." "I feel so stressed." These thoughts keep you stuck in the cycle of guilt, shame, and harsh self-judgment.
When you feel anxious about plans, it's easy to get stuck. It's so easy to feel overwhelmed. But this doesn't mean you're failing. It just means you need some tools—and time—to move forward in a way that works for you. That's where teen therapy can really help. Talking to a therapist gives you a safe space to work through anxious thoughts, build confidence, and explore your options without pressure. At Mindful Living Counseling Orlando, our teen counseling services are designed to support you through these big transitions so you don't have to figure it all out alone.
You Don't Have to Have It All Figured Out
It's okay to feel unsure about your next step. Whether you take a gap year, start at community college, job shadow, or just explore what lights you up—what matters most is that you keep moving, even if it's one small step at a time. There's no single "right" path after high school; figuring it out takes time, courage, and support.
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Other Therapy Services Offered at Mindful Living Counseling in Orlando, FL
At Mindful Living Counseling, we understand that anxiety about your future may not be the only challenge you may struggle with. That’s ok. We offer a variety of therapy services at Mindful Living Counseling, which include Trauma Therapy, EMDR Therapy, Eating Disorder Therapy, and Toxic Relationship Therapy. We encourage you to check out our Guided Meditations. If you have any questions, please feel free to reach out!
Anxiety Therapist Lauran Hahn
Lauran Hahn is an Orlando therapist who specializes in helping clients deal with anxiety and trauma. She is a Certified Sensorimotor Psychotherapist, a Certified EMDR Therapist, and an EMDRIA Approved Consultant. Lauran’s goal is to help individuals feel calm in their bodies, at peace in their minds, and connected in their relationships.